Who We Are

What We Do

GesherEU provides support and assistance to anybody who has decided to make the difficult transition from an ultra-Orthodox Jewish community into the mainstream world. We recognise that moving into secular society is like being a “new immigrant”.  

It can be very confusing and isolating, especially as you may not have the practical knowledge, education or skills you need to function independently in a totally new environment.

We are here to help. We can offer you a new community, as well as help with legal advice, opportunities for education, welfare support, and much more. 

We’re based in North London, and also have a chapter in Manchester. Our members come from across the UK.

How we began

The Birth of GesherEU

GesherEU started its life around a large table in our founder, Emily Green’s, dining room. After leaving her Chasidic community in 2012, Emily went through an extremely stressful and lonely time negotiating the family court system, in order to retain access to her five children and choose their schooling. There was nobody to support her.

She was determined that, in future, no-one else should have to go through trauma like she’d experienced, alone. Once a successful and landmark Court of Appeal judgement was behind her, she organised a meet-up for anyone else who, like her, had left their Charedi community and wanted companionship and support. Word spread, and 20 people turned up to the first social event at Emily’s home. 

A Brief History of GesherEU

"Gesher has been amazing. Living a frum (religious) life, but really no longer able to believe in it or feel comfortable in my closed community, made me feel like I was suffocating. Then I found Gesher and I suddenly felt there was hope for me.”

Chaim C, Stamford Hill

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Our People

We are still largely run by volunteers. As we continue to expand, and our organisation’s needs become more complex, we are now looking to fundraise to appoint a CEO, who can manage our operations. 

Vicky Jones

Welfare Support Officer
Working directly with our members, Vicky provides practical advice and support, as well as a sympathetic ear. She helps our members to integrate into mainstream society, advocating on their behalf and liaising with bureaucratic organisations – such as benefits agencies, local authorities and family courts – and with other specialist support groups. She also helps members access counselling, and is responsible for safeguarding.

Vicky has worked as a disability employment adviser and as an outreach worker for homeless people. She’s also worked in women-only services and with sex workers. She lives in East London with her partner, stepson and their cat.

Moishy Wajnsztok

Community Coordinator
Moishy organises regular and varied social events for GesherEU, including pub and restaurant meet-ups, Friday-night dinners, online lectures, residential weekends away and trips to the theatre or concerts – many of which will be novel experiences for members.

He’s also in regular contact with members, checking in on them if they’re ill, marking their life events and helping them to connect with each other and build relationships. His aim is to foster a community within GesherEU, which will ultimately become self-sustaining.

Moishy grew up in the Charedi community in Belgium and London, before leaving eight years ago. He has worked in the housing sector and has three children. He now lives in North London.

Hilary Freeman

Media and Communications Coordinator
Hilary’s role is to raise GesherEU’s profile in the media and to maintain our position as an authoritative voice within the Jewish community.

She interviews members to share their stories, reports on GesherEU’s activities, writes content for our website and looks after our social media. She also liaises with journalists to get coverage in the general media and works with the trustees to develop our communications and campaigning strategies.

She’s an experienced freelance journalist, agony aunt and broadcaster, and the author of eight books. She lives on a houseboat in East London, with her partner and their daughter.

Emily Green

Founder and Trustee
Emily grew up in the ultra-orthodox, Belz Chasidic community in Stamford Hill. Despite expressing the desire to go to college, she was persuaded into an arranged marriage at the age of 20. She studied for her degree by correspondence course, at night, whilst raising her young children, and managed to obtain a masters degree using a hidden internet router. She left the Chasidic community in 2012 and is now Head of English at a mainstream secondary school. She fought her way through the court system for the right to send her children to a mainstream Jewish school, so they would get a good secular education and have choices. Her case resulted in a landmark judgment at the Court of Appeal. Emily's experience led her to found GesherEU, so that nobody else would have to face the lonely, difficult process of leaving an ultra-orthodox community alone. Although she oversees the whole organisation, she continues to attend and host member events, and is always available to talk to members who need support.

Motti Kalikstein

Trustee
After leaving the ultra-orthodox Gur community in Stamford Hill in 2016, Motti joined GesherEU as an active member and volunteer. Motti studied Statistics at UCL and currently works as a senior manager in a corporate finance advisory firm. Motti joined GesherEU as a trustee and treasurer in 2024.

David Lewis

Trustee
David serves as GesherEU's lead for fundraising. With a career spanning roles as a partner at a West End accountancy firm, running his own consultancy and current work in corporate finance, David uses his experience to secure support from grant-giving bodies. His professional experience includes providing outsourced internal audit services to a large charity as well accountancy services for smaller charities. David joined GesherEU in 2020, first as a volunteer and then as a trustee.

Robert Bernard

Trustee
Robert has a degree in applied physics and is a chartered engineer and a member of the British Computer Society. Formerly a systems analyst and programmer, he worked for the GLC, at the London Stock Exchange and for Accenture. Following retirement, he volunteered for GesherEU, and then became one of its founder trustees. He’s been involved in most aspects of the charity from IT to giving evidence in the Family Court, to working on education campaigns.

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Becoming a GesherEU Trustee

GesherEU is keen to recruit new trustees to help grow the charity and to bring new ideas and energy to the Board. If you want to know if you’d be a good fit, please first read this website and ask yourself if you’d  be happy working to build a community that gives its members a voice and choice over all aspects of their lives. 

FREEDOM – CHOICE – COMMUNITY

About GesherEU

GesherEU supports people in the UK who have either left a Charedi community, or are considering doing so, to integrate into the wider world. 

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